I am officially turning into an Iyer maami. Yes, funny though but ironically I don't mind the humor this time. All along my childhood and teenage years I used to really wonder why my mother takes the pain of getting up in the morning, dressing up in a madisaar (nine yard saree), making vellam/uppu adais and nombu saradu. Then going to work and hitting a dozen temples in evening during rush hour. I used to ask,"why take so much of pains during a working day? Get the adais from the shop and go to the temples during weekends". My mom would laugh and say," I am doing it because it gives me pleasure and you don't get these adais in a shop".
But I totally understand and appreciate her now. Karadayain Nombu is the southern version of Karava Chauth. We invoke the blessing of God and pray for a long fruitful lives for our respective husbands. It is celebrated on the first day of Phalguni Masam (month), which was yesterday. We remember the sati (pious wife) savithri for bringing back her husband back from God Yama (God of death). All though the husbands don't seem to be doing anything for our longevity, the tradition continues. I love the adais and the tradition. Hehe...
I have been doing this nombu for 3 years now. Past two years my mother has been telling me not to make the adais as it isn't that easy to get it right until you see someone making them. Past two years I have been making kesari or payasam for neivethiyam. But this time I surprised her by making them and making them right. Thank you Srirangam maama and maami for the recipe. Avi was surprised too.
These are the things I did:-
But I totally understand and appreciate her now. Karadayain Nombu is the southern version of Karava Chauth. We invoke the blessing of God and pray for a long fruitful lives for our respective husbands. It is celebrated on the first day of Phalguni Masam (month), which was yesterday. We remember the sati (pious wife) savithri for bringing back her husband back from God Yama (God of death). All though the husbands don't seem to be doing anything for our longevity, the tradition continues. I love the adais and the tradition. Hehe...
I have been doing this nombu for 3 years now. Past two years my mother has been telling me not to make the adais as it isn't that easy to get it right until you see someone making them. Past two years I have been making kesari or payasam for neivethiyam. But this time I surprised her by making them and making them right. Thank you Srirangam maama and maami for the recipe. Avi was surprised too.
These are the things I did:-
1. Put kolam (rangoli) and light the lamp.
2. Light incense and keep the manjal saradu next to God.
3. Dress to kill in madisaar.
4. Keep the adais and fresh vennai (butter) for neivethiyam.
5. Say this, "urugatha vennaiyum, oru adai yum naan nuuthen, oru kaalum yen kanavan, ennai piriyamal irukka vendum"!!! which means, Non-melted butter, an adai, I place in front of you, at anytime my husband should not be parted from me.
6. Do namaskaram to Avi.
7. Gobble up the adais after giving them to Avi.



