I was a picky eater during my kinder garden years. Not that I was selective on flavors, but I somehow just did not like the idea of eating. I would sit on the dinning table for 2 hrs trying to complete my lunch and half of the milk during breakfast would be poured secretly into plant pots. I left no opportunity to harass my mother on an everyday basis. Wonder how she handled me. It terrifies me that my own child would land up being just like me and I would have to run to her saying,"I have no idea what to do, ma!".
The only thing I would eat without a fuss were my mom's tea cakes and hence, my mom baked a lot of tea cakes in different colors to entice me into eating something on a daily basis. One day I over heard her talking to my father and she said," Nah! I don't think I am a great cook. But I should get some credit for my cakes. If preeti has them, they might be really good". And they both laughed.
I guess this was the first solution she had found to a problem I never told her about. As I was growing up, they were more, like public speaking (I used to stammer slightly) , skin care tips, make up tricks, mathematics phobia and hostel loneliness to name a few. I never told her of these problems, but my mom had a fix for everything. How much ever I would revolt, criticize or complain, she would be quite. I would realize eventually that it was because of her that I wasn't a loose nut. She had fixed me all along.
That is ma, appa and myself.
She was my savior and she never gave up upon me. She gave me what ever it took to fix my problems; be it confidence, making herbal face masks or getting the best math tutor! She did it all. She was my mirror telling me to face my problems and then finding a solution for me. I topped my math exam, won seminars and with a clean teen skin! She did everything and I took the credit home.
I am 26, married and completed my masters in electrical engineering. When people say I handle most things quite decently, I think how perfect my mom was doing the same and say,"you haven't met my mom. I am not even half decent as her". After all these years of fussing, complaining and even criticizing her, I realized, I can never outdo her prowess in anything. Be it at home or work. And yet she says," I am so proud of you". I so miss her warm hugs and encourage words.
Both of us have not changed. I still call her and tremble saying,"Today is my DL test ma, I am scared!". In the whole world, I can only tell her this...."Ma, I am so scared". I guess we hold on to some amount of ego with everyone we know, even with our dads. But mothers are special. There are no farce walls between a mother and her children. We all have husbands, siblings and friends to share our deepest secrets. But it is only to a mother we will confide and reveal our weak side.
Thanks for all the fixes ma. For my readers, her first fix is right here for you. It is her famous tea cake. Tea cakes for spongy and fluffy, but not that dense. It should have crispy crust to it when warm from the oven. Best to be had with a hot beverage.
Basic Vanilla Tea Cake:-
Ingredients:-
1 cup of Sugar
1/2 cup of butter
2 large eggs
1 tsp pure vanilla extract
1 and 1/2 cup of flour
2 tsp of baking powder
1/2 cup of milk
Method:-
Preheat oven to 300 deg F and grease a cake tin
Cream the sugar and butter and add eggs one at a time and beat well.
Combine the vanilla extract.
Combine Flour and baking powder in a separate bowl.
Add milk and flour into the egg mixture alternatively and beat the mixture well till the end.
Pour the batter in the greased tin and bake for 30- 40 mins until a toothpick inserted in the cake comes out clean.
Happy Mother's Day to all you guys and have a great weekend with your mothers! Sending this to Panch Pakwan's Celebrating Mother's Day Event and Shabitha's event: Celebrating Mom.
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37 comments:
Beautiful write up...Ur mom's cake makes me nostalgic...I still remember my mom used to prepare almost the same cake...Nothing will beat na..
Thanks Priya! I know..the best are a mother's cake!
wow..u r mom's cake very tempting..looks so yummy.will try soon.Thanks for sharing such a wonderful recipe with us.
Happy Mother's day to u dear.
nice write up..the cake looks awesome..
Love reading the post...cake looks very gud..convey the same to your mom dear
Thanks, Preeti,Sowmya and Divya!
Lovely post and a wonderful tribute to mom. Thanks for sharing...
Thanks for sharing your nostalgic recipe..Perfect one to clebrate mothers day...simple yet elegant
thanks gulmohar and rajee
OMG!!! look at the texture.. it does all the talking! delicious and super soft and fluffy. Nothing best comparable to mom's recipe!
hey preeti very touchy write up...u shed tears in my eyes..i write so well..u can b a writer...:-) seriously..anywasys Happy mothers day darling and to all our great mom...CAKE...favulous...it has turned out simply perfect..ur mom wil b happy to c it...
thanks ann and sanyukta!
mom's cake the name itself feels so nostalgic.nice write up yarr..\really tempting cake..Wish u a happy mother's day too
btw i think its my first visit here..lovely space yarr..like to see new recipes..following.
Doesnt look like first time baked cake...looks super soft n spongy!
Nothing can replace mothers food. We always dont realize how much our mother's used to do for us, emotionally I think is the biggest. the support that they give you cannot be bought.
I so agree with u srimathi!
Thanks for the compliments sharmilee!
Mom should be proud of you Dear, great post! Happy Mother's Day! The cake is delightful!
Looks so soft and spongy..
Preeti, what a lovely and emotional post. I think most of us feel the same way towards our moms. We are not even half decent as them.
So so sweet and cute,and this cake sure is awesomely special and real real good!!!
Yeah ,ur right,its so soft and fluffy and spongy,love it!!
I love ur idea of a tea cake!
This one actually would be fantastic with my fav frosting-buttercream:-)))
Preeti,
Nice write up, Moms are best always.Cake is really nice and soft. Mom are superchefs no body can beat them.
Perfect Cake..happen to be here first time.. and am hooked by the cake.. will definately participate in your green gormet event.. happy hosting..
do drop down to mine..
cheers
Thanks J for visiting :)
Beautiful write up Preeti and thanks for sharing your mom's cake recipe... looks absolutely delicious :)
Have a nice weekend!
Wow Preeti,,lovely write up..
Do send your yummy cake recipe to my event.
Nice write up. Loved reading the post. The cake looks so so perfect and amazingly good. Just like a sponge cake. Nice clicks too.
Such a lovely write up priti,Moms are the best,...and happy mothers day to you too...cake looks beautiful,spongy and perfect, moms recipes can never go wrong...
What a very sweet post and a great tribute to your mother...and all mothers!
That cake looks fabulous...I can see why you refused to eat anything else.
thanks for visiting MD!
Hi Preeti, so nice of u to think of me...yes i havent blogged in a while coz i was travelling to india and then came back and had to travel on business. but i am back now and will definitely whip up something green for ur event...hope u r having fun too....cheers!
Very simple yet tasty and lovely looking cake. Enjoyed ur write-up and an adorable photo too.Greetings on Mother's day.
Hello this is my first time to your blog, u have a great space, and i love ur mom's cake...
Thanks for visiting Rumana!
what a wonderful writeup and i just love that photo! Happy mothers day to your Mom, Preeti!
thanks everyone!
being away from parents makes us miss them so much... seeing your pic with your parents reminded me of my similar pics with my parents... i guess all of us would have them !
Yesterday, being Mothers'Day, it was not possible to be together so i spent quite some time going through old albums :)
First time here in ur blog. ur mom's cake is making me nostalgic too. Very good write up. when i saw ur photo, it too reminds me of my childhood days. Good old day....
Very happy that I found a good blog, and is very happy to follow u dear.
My mom too used to prepare this cake.
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